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By Le anne
Clausen
As a seminary student, wife, volunteer,
ESL tutor, and women’s rights activist, Nayoung
Ha’s days are plenty busy.
Nayoung, 33, is a student at McCormick
Theological Seminary in Chicago and hails from Busan, the
second largest city and a harbor town in South Korea.
She didn’t start out in ministry.
In undergrad, she majored in public administration, but
didn’t like it. She then enrolled at Han Shin Theological
Seminary in Seoul and graduated with a Master of Divinity (
M.Div.).
Nayoung arrived in the US in 2003 with
her then-fiance, Min Won Song, to participate in
McCormick’s Summer Language Institute, an intensive ESL
and cultural orientation program for international students.
After the program, the couple returned to Seoul for their
wedding and honeymoon. Min Won then returned to McCormick for
classes while Nayoung stayed on at Han Shin to finish her
M.Div. program.
Upon graduation, Nayoung came back to
Chicago to join her husband, and both were awarded a full
scholarship into McCormick’s Master of Arts in
Theological Studies program.
However, because she had to switch visas,
Nayoung had a semester where she could neither work nor study.
She enjoyed this immensely. After all, she had been working and
studying since she was 19.
“I came from a poor family,”
she explains, “but this scholarship offered a living
stipend for one year.”
This allowed her the chance to try out
“everything I ever wanted to do, even before classes
started.” She began volunteering at a Korean
women’s domestic violence shelter, and also participated
in lay classes and “all kinds of other activities,”
which included participation in the Vagina Monologues and
Chapel services on campus.
The Harder Parts
“In the US, everything is much
slower. Korea is a fast-lane country in terms of schedules and
even one’s social agenda. It is a small country, but
there’s lots going on. This is true also of your family,
particularly brothers and sisters, and needing to make time to
spend with them,” she says.
Since arriving here, she feels as though
she’s “slipped away” somewhat from family and
domestic life. She initially felt insulated from what’s
happening in the US. She also found it difficult to live in
Chicago at first. Her English wasn’t what she would like
it to be and as a result, she didn’t take the time to
develop friendships with others even though there were other
international students on campus.
“I was lonely, missing my city, and
my English wasn’t improving, but then I decided this is
my life and where I’m living now, so now it’s
important to me,” she says. She credits her faith with
bringing her out of her shell.
“From that point on, it was very
exciting.”
Housework and Homework
When she first arrived, Nayoung was doing
the housework while Min Won was doing homework. Now that they
are both students, she says, “It’s good. We can
discuss our studies together, argue, and develop our
thoughts.”
Still, their academic interests are
different. Nayoung prefers practical ministry skills such as
counseling and preaching, while Min Won is more interested in
the academic study of theology, the Bible, and the Biblical
languages of Greek and Hebrew.
As individuals, she says, they are very
different, too. Nayoung is outgoing while Min Won is shy. They
used to disagree over going to parties, or whether to attend
the weekly social gatherings organized by Residence Life. After
a while, they reached a settlement: she would attend and see
their friends, and he would enjoy his time at home.
Strategies for Being a Successful
International Student:
“Chicago is a good place for
international students,” Nayoung says. “It’s
racially diverse, and there’s an ecumenical community
here — not just Presbyterian, but Lutheran,
Episcopalian, Reformed, Catholic, Muslim, etc.”
She says Koreans are more passive
students but in order to become a more successful student in
America, they should overcome this.
“I didn’t use to write what I
think; or do field trips, active research, presentations, or
class discussions,” says Nayoung, who now helps new
international students through the language program at
McCormick. “Korean students here can lose their way
because they don’t know what to do,”
“Students need to be active
listeners. Try and engage at least once in the classroom
discussion. Say something just to keep speaking. Make the
effort,” she advises. “We have to challenge
ourselves in order to improve ourselves.”
She says students who don’t speak
perfect English should still engage their classmates in
conversation.
“Sometimes you need to be
‘selfish’ in communication. Try even if
you’re not fluent, even if the other person isn’t
comfortable.”
Volunteering and Activism
In 2004 Nayoung began working with
KAN-WIN, a not-for-profit organization providing services to
Korean-American women who are victims of domestic violence.
At first she was volunteering twice per
week with administrative work. She then completed the 40-hour
training crisis counselor certification program and began
conducting client interviews with Korean-Americans and others
who feared losing their visas if they reported their abusive
partners.
Due to the demands of school, her role at
KAN-WIN is now smaller, but she does work on domestic violence
awareness on campus.
For the past two years, she has organized
a domestic violence conference at the seminary for Korean
classmates and their families. She recruits her classmates to
volunteer and complete the 40-hour training. Now four other
students and their spouses are involved, including a male
Korean pastor.
Future Plans:
After graduation this spring, Nayoung
intends to return to Korea to work with the country’s
women, children, mixed-race and migrant workers.
She also hopes to develop
awareness-raising programs in the church for Korea’s
gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered citizens.
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